How often do you feel like going out but have no one to go out with?
“How often do we miss opportunities because we are waiting for someone to do them with us?
If you still feel like half of a partnership after a breakup, it might feel strange to engage in activities without your ex.
They were your guide when you drove; the expert critic when you picked out movies together; and the flavor-chooser of your ice cream sundae and toppings. “No, don’t get sprinkles again, get nuts this time!” Now you are facing the task of creating your own entertainment and deciding all by yourself what kind of ice cream to have. You are going to have fun alone. It's better than staying in all by yourself and feeling sorry for yourself.
Go and see that movie no one else wants to see.
you don’t always need a companion. Have little adventures along the way. Make yourself a stronger person by being independent. You don’t need old what’s-their-name to make decisions for you. Do you really think your ex has turned into a shut-in? Not likely.
You are strong! You are independent! As Gloria Gaynor said “I will survive.” And so will you.
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