Women judge people. It’s a trait females are born with – they just can’t help it because the judging gene is found in every female brain, right next to the “I love handbags” cerebral cortex area.
But what and who do women judge?
12. Men. But only if they have time after judging anyone female.
11. Their female friends. Yes, there is some loyalty in being a friend, but sometimes not very much.
10. Anyone who is happy when they are not.
9. Other people’s homes: décor, cleanliness, size “It’s a cute home,” means it’s small, dirty, and cheaply decorated; and you should find yourself a rich a man to move you in to a better one.
8. Celebrities. “Yes, but looking gorgeous isn’t everything. Anyway, that color looks horrendous on her.”
7. Other women – strangers. This is considered a sport, like watching tennis or football.
6. The way anyone dresses. “You should see how she dresses that little Chihuahua. Like a little ho dog.”
5. Anyone else’s views or opinions. “What does he think he’s talking about? He’s much too short to have any kind of an opinion.”
4. Other women’s weaknesses and vulnerabilities. “I wish she would stop trying to cover up that big fat wart on her nose with too much makeup. It makes those piggy eyes of hers look even smaller.”
3. The way other women see themselves. “She thinks she’s so much better than anyone else, just because she has new shoes.”
2. How they think other people perceive them. “Did you see the way that tall girl looked down her nose at me? Who does she think she is?”
And lastly and most importantly –
1. Themselves.
So if we are hardest on ourselves, does that exonerate us from feeling guilty about judging others? Of course it does! So judge all you want because the guilt we feel from judging ourselves cancels out any bad things we think and say about others.
One of the Breakup Cocktail’s tales, called Why does my ex hate me? Is that our friendship flying out the window…? tells the tale of Zoe whose ex broke up with her. Her original plan was to make herself look perfect then accidently meet up with him so that he would see what he was missing and beg her take him back. But plans of revenge and reuniting don’t always work out the way that they are planned. When Zoe finds out that he did something unthinkable to her, intimidation is on the cards and in this accidental meeting, both parties are unprepared for what ultimately happens.
Read the entire story of Zoe, along with 59 other tales in Breakup Cocktail: 5 Parts Laughter, 1 Part Healing and a Twist of Revenge, available at Amazon.com. Click here to see
